无锡婚姻调解

发布日期:2019-07-03 浏览次数:4
  • 无锡婚姻调解

婚姻可以比喻为一座桥梁,伴侣两个人各自形成一端的基础,连接两端的桥身则是婚姻关系。关系暂离阶段,彼此将会有时间关注自己这端的基础,而不是象常见那样,把注意力放在桥的另一端(对方的不足)或者是桥面上(婚姻表层的缺陷)。关系暂离阶段是一个关注自我,挑战自我的时分,这个时期最危险在于桥梁也许真的自然蹋崩。

Marriage can be compared to a bridge, where two partners form the basis of one end, and the bridge connecting the two ends is the marriage relationship. When the relationship is temporarily out of phase, each other will have time to focus on their own foundation, rather than on the other end of the bridge (the other's shortcomings) or on the deck (the defects of the marriage surface), as is often the case. The temporary departure stage of a relationship is a time of self-concern and self-challenge. The most dangerous part of this period is that the bridge may really collapse naturally.

我们有没有更好的选择?答案是肯定的。当我们被迷雾环绕,找不到婚姻的出路时,寻找适合你的婚姻治疗师就是一个明智之选。坚实的桥,的确取决于桥的两端--支撑桥的基础是否保有一定的质量。

Do we have a better choice? The answer is yes. When we are surrounded by fog and can't find a way out of marriage, it's a wise choice to find a marriage therapist for you. A solid bridge really depends on whether the foundation of the supporting bridge, which is at both ends of the bridge, is of certain quality.

其实很多时候基础还在,却因为缺少日常的维护而导致表层破损不堪。在咨询室的安全氛围里,婚姻咨询师会引领困顿的夫妻放下戒备,更真实地面对彼此的需要、恐惧、伤害和怨恨,重新建立情感联结和对婚姻的希望。

In fact, many times the foundation is still there, but due to the lack of daily maintenance and lead to surface damage. In the safe atmosphere of the counseling room, the marriage counselor will lead the distressed couples to put down their guard, face each other's needs, fears, injuries and resentments more truly, and re-establish emotional bonds and hope for marriage.

即使双方最后还是选择分离,也是在更清晰地了解彼此的差异无法相容之后做出的不悔抉择。那时双方将带着宽容和理解和平分手,也会有更多的信心去面对下一段婚姻。

Even if the two sides eventually choose to separate, it is a regretless choice made after a clearer understanding of the incompatibility of their differences. At that time, both sides will break up peacefully with tolerance and understanding, and will have more confidence to face the next marriage. 

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